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Dancing With God
Five Words That Can Change Your Life
Common Clay or Cherished Crystal?

The Cracked Pot
Wake Up Call
Chosen Vessel
ABCs to Live By

 

 

 

Dancing With God

When I meditated on the word Guidance,

I kept seeing "dance" at the end of the word.

I remember reading that doing God's will is a lot like dancing.

When two people try to lead, nothing feels right.

The movement doesn't flow with the music,

and everything is quite uncomfortable and jerky.

When one person realizes that, and lets the other lead,

both bodies begin to flow with the music.

One gives gentle cues, perhaps with a nudge to the back

or by pressing lightly in one direction or another.

It's as if two become one body, moving beautifully.

The dance takes surrender, willingness,

and attentiveness from one person

and gentle guidance and skill from the other.

My eyes drew back to the word Guidance.

When I saw "G": I thought of God, followed by "u" and "i".

"God, "u" and "i" dance." God, you, and I dance.

As I lowered my head, I became willing to trust

that I would get guidance about my life.

Once again, I became willing to let God lead.

My prayer for you today is that God's blessings

and mercies are upon you on this day and everyday.

May you abide in God, as God abides in you.

Dance together with God, trusting God to lead

and to guide you through each season of your life.

−Source unknown (via email)

Consider this… As we accept our assignment in life realizing God is in control and surrender to His instruction to forgive, we can joyfully trust and surrender to His lead.

“You changed my mourning into dancing." 

                                                           — Psalm 30:2

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Five Words That Can Change Your Life

This year I've been meditating on how to make the Presence of Jesus more of a reality in my everyday life. I firmly believe that if we knew that God was in us and with us, we would not be so afraid, or bored, so lonely, or lost. We would not be seeking pleasure in sinful ways, or stuffing ourselves full of food or spending our money on more and more things, or looking for love in all the wrong places. Our lives would be rich and meaningful and full of purpose and direction. Jesus told us, "I have come that they might have life and have it abundantly (John 10:10)."

But truth be told, most of us, even as believers, don't live in that reality. Before Jesus left this world and His disciples to ascend into heaven, He said five words that changed their lives. He said, "I am with you always." (Matthew 28:20)

Let's look at these five simple words more closely and see how they can change us too.

He said, "I am with you always." Who exactly is making this claim? Jesus says this after His resurrection and the disciples now are starting to get the big picture. He is not just their friend, their companion, their teacher. Nor is He a religious leader or future king of Israel. Jesus proved that He is the Son of God. He is the great I AM. He is the one who is omniscient, and omnipresent. He is sovereign, He is love, and He is good. It is HE who promises that He is with us always. The disciples realized if God is for us, who can be against us? (Romans 8:31).

How about you, dear ones? If you knew He, the great I AM, is always present with you, what would you fear? How would you change? What would be different in the way you lived today?

Not only is Jesus declaring that the great I AM is with us, but that He IS with us, right here, right now. He doesn't say He will be with his disciples sometime in the future, or later on in Heaven but He said "I am (present tense) with you always. If you believed that Jesus is with you right now, what difference would that make in the choices you make today? How would you feel differently?

Jesus told his followers that "I am with YOU always." Each individual is important to God and He will never leave or forsakes us (Hebrews 13:5). He is at our right hand (Psalm 16:8). His Presence is promised. Paul speaks of that great mystery, Christ in us (Colossians 1, 2). The reality of that promise is not our biggest problem in our spiritual journey.

Our problem is that we are not aware of His Presence. After Jacob's dream where he heard the Lord promising that He was with him and would protect him, he awoke from his sleep and said, "Surely the Lord is in this place, and I wasn't even aware of it." (Genesis 28:16).

How about you? If we only could only see (be aware) that the great "I AM is with US" it would make all the difference in how we feel, what we choose, and how we go about our day. Our step would be lighter, our eyes brighter, because we would not only be looking at our day from our own vantage point, but we'd also have the eyes of God who gives us a wide angle lens on things. He infuses meaning and purpose into traffic jams and spilt milk, job losses and relationship pain.

Jesus said, "I am with you ALWAYS." Not sometimes, not only when you're listening to Him, not only when you're good and faithful, but ALWAYS. ALWAYS. ALWAYS. He says He is with us when we're sleeping and when we're awake. When we're in church and when we're watching something we shouldn't. He is with us when we are loving on our children, and when we're screaming at our spouse.

Friends, my prayer is that we would learn to be more aware that HE is PRESENT ALWAYS. Knowing God's Presence changes the way we respond to difficult and stressful life situations. We would not get so angry or aggravated. We would not feel so alone or rejected. We would experience peace not chronic anxiety and worry. We would feel joy instead of emptiness. We would be filled with hope instead of despair.

Sarah Young, the author of a wonderful devotional book, Jesus Calling wrote, "A renewed mind is Presence-focused." I like that. Start today. You are not alone or helpless. God is with you always. Let your mind dwell on and heart be filled with this truth. If you do, I promise, it will change you.

— With permission from Leslie Vernick newsletter, February 2011, www.leslievernick.com

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Common Clay or Cherished Crystal?

After hearing from a friend that God used an email I had forwarded to encourage her during a discouraging time, I was again amazed at how God uses every day experiences to encourage us—personally.

At one point in my journey, I was feeling like a failure as a pastor’s wife. During a Pastoral Leadership meeting my husband and I were attending, a speaker was expressing gratitude to the pastor’s wives for their service over the years. As I listened, a word picture formed in my mind. I saw myself as a broken clay pot (not deserving of the kind comments being made) surrounded by a room full of crystal vases.

Some weeks later during our annual church convention, I was given three crystal vases! One was left on my chair—a gift from our traveling speaker and his wife. The second was a crystal bowl from my husband’s brother & sister-in-law. And the third one came from four widows we had known from a previous church assignment. At the end of the convention, they pooled their remaining funds to buy me a gift—a crystal vase!

That experience carried with it a vivid message enhancing my concept of God, which desperately needed to change at that time. God tenderly showed me He knows exactly how we feel and stands ready to encourage us—personally.

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Consider this… Our feelings, which are often not based on truth, can distort the way we view our heavenly father. He is not an aloof God. The truth is He is a loving father, who is for us at every stage of our lives and brings comfort and encouragement to us though other people. Maybe you also can see God’s encouragement reaching you through the kindness of others. The Apostle Paul certainly did.

“Nevertheless God, who comforts the downcast, comforted us

by the coming of Titus…””

— 2 Corinthians 7:6 (NKJV)

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The Cracked Pot

An elderly Chinese woman had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole which she carried across her neck. One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water. At the end of the long walk from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full. For two years this went on daily, with the woman bringing home only one and a half pots of water. Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments. But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been made to do.

After two years of what it perceived to be bitter failure, it spoke to the woman one day by the stream. "I am ashamed of myself, because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your house."

The old woman smiled, "Did you notice that there are flowers on your side of the path, but not on the other side? That's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you water them. For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate my table. Without you being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty to grace the house."

— Unknown

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Consider this… Each of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so very interesting and rewarding. We just need to accept each person for what they are and look for the good in them.

“Live out your God-created identity. Live generously and graciously

toward others, the way God lives toward you.”

— Matthew 5:48 (MSG)

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Wake Up Call

It was an ordinary day in our pastoral home—our children had left for school, my husband was working in his office and I was peacefully cleaning up the kitchen. Everything changed when the phone rang. A frantic woman from our congregation was on her way to the hospital with her grown daughter, a mother of two little ones.

By the time we arrived at the hospital, the young husband was signing the death certificate and of course this woman was very distraught. The two of us slipped into a quiet room reserved for families and I did what I could to comfort and calm her. My husband joined the young man who had just lost his wife.

Gradually she did calm down. Though none of us feel truly adequate at a time like this, I felt I was doing an okay job. She had calmed down after all, and we were conversing.

Suddenly the door opened and in walked our Assistant Pastor and his wife, who had lost a teen-aged son several years before.  The two ladies embraced and both burst into tears, sobbing for some time at a deeply emotional level.

Naturally I started to feel like I had failed miserably. Quickly reflecting on the short time we had spent together, I realized I had done an okay job of comforting her. But since I had never lost anyone close to me at that time, it was unreasonable to think I could share her grief at that profound level.

God used this moment to enlighten me. I had spent years trying to get my husband to understand what I was facing as a result of my difficult background. In that instant I came to realize he couldn’t understand, because he hadn’t experienced it. It was unreasonable for me to expect that of him.

Though painful at the moment, this experience showed me that my expectation of him was actually causing him to feel inadequate—just as I was feeling in the hospital that day.

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Consider this… As I was, are you possibly looking to other people for understanding and comfort which they simply can’t provide? While they may be able to sympathize, they may not be able to empathize. Empathy expresses understanding birthed out of personal experience. Sympathy just can’t bring comfort like empathy can. Sometimes it takes years for this realization to sink in—Jesus is the only one who truly understands and offers the kind of comfort we need.

“Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of

compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles,

so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves

have received from God.”

2 Corinthians 1:3-4 (NIV)

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Chosen Vessel

 

The Master was searching for a vessel to use;

On the shelf there were many—which one would he choose?

 

“Take me. I’m shiny and bright,

I’m of great value and I do things just right.

My beauty and luster will outshine the rest

 

The Master passed on with no word at all;

He looked at a silver urn, narrow and tall;

 

“I’ll serve You dear Master, I’ll pour out Your wine

And I’ll be at Your table whenever you dine,

My lines are so graceful, my carvings so true,

And my silver will always compliment You.”

 

Unheeding, the Master passed on to the brass,

It was wide-mouthed, shallow, and polished like glass.

 

“Here!  Here, “I know I will do,

Place me on Your table for all men to view.”

“Look at me, I’m made of crystal so clear,

“My transparency shows my contents so dear,

Though fragile am I, I will serve You with pride,

 

And I’m sure I’ll be happy in Your house to abide.”

 

The Master came next to a vessel of wood,

Polished and carved, it solidly stood.

 

“You may use me, dear Master, “But I’d rather You

used me for fruit, not for bread.”

  

Then the Master looked down and saw a vessel of clay.

Empty and broken it helplessly lay.

No hope had the vessel that the Master might choose,

To cleanse and make whole, to fill and to use.

 

“Ah! This is the vessel I’ve been hoping to find,

I will mend and use it and make it all Mine.”

“I need not the vessel with pride in itself;

Nor the one who is narrow to sit on the shelf;

Nor the one who is big mouthed, shallow and loud;

Nor the one who thinks he can do all things just right;

 

But this plain earthy vessel filled with My power and might.”

Then gently he lifted the vessel of clay.

Mended and cleansed it and filled it that day.

Spoke to it kindly, “There’s work you must do,

Just pour out to others as I pour into you.”

                                                                      

— Author Unknown

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If you are feeling like a “broken vessel” today, I hope you will be encouraged as you consider this…

 

You are a Chosen Vessel. You have been chosen as a child of God and there’s nothing He desires more than to gently lift you, mend and cleanse you, and fill you today.  He has work for you to do.  Let Him heal you and speak kindly to you, pouring into you so you can pour out to others.

“The Lord your God is with you… He will take great delight in you,
he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing.”

 — Zephaniah 3:17 (NIV)

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ABCs to Live By
 

A

Always ALLAY ANGER. This is Satan’s personality, not God’s.

 

N

Let NO man take your crown. Your time is NOW. 

B

Be the BEST you can be. Develop yourself.

 

O

OPENNESS is lost when there’s a secret to be kept. You don’t have to keep it.

C

Concentrate on COMPASSION for the ones who have made your life difficult.

 

P

PRAY. If you haven’t solved the problem in prayer, you haven’t solved it.

D

DWELL on the present, not the past.

 

Q

QUIT degrading yourself and feeling guilty. You’re human, too.

E

Be an ENCOURAGER. Build up others. Everyone needs it.

 

R

REFUSE to be robbed of any more of your life. Take responsibility for it.

F

FORGIVE quickly. It’s good for you to be a forgiving person.

 

S

SEXUALITY is God’s gift to you.

G

Look for the GOOD in life. It could always be worse.

 

T

THANK God daily for being a loving authority and giving us victory over sin.

H

With HUMILITY offer a helping hand to those who are in need of healing.

 

U

God made us all UNIQUE. Dare to be who you are in Christ.

I

Use positive IMAGERY to help re-program your mind.

 

V

VALUE yourself and others. We are all very valuable to God.

J

Radiate JOY because God is healing you and helping you become a truly happy person!

 

W

WEEP when you must. Jesus wept. He felt the suffering of all mankind. It merits tears.

K

KEEP getting up. We all fall down, but we first must get up before we can get going.

 

X

Let God X-RAY your heart. Be completely honest with Him.

L

Learn to LOVE and be LOVEABLE. Trust people to love you, and they will.

 

Y

Discover YOURSELF. What are your likes and dislikes? No more people-pleasing.

M

Old METHODS don’t work now. Abandon them.

 

Z

ZERO in on maturity. Others don’t deserve immaturity from you.

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Consider this... list a straight path on your journey out of the fog of depression and dysfunction. And be encouraged as you see change in these areas.

“Therefore strengthen the hands which hang down, and the feeble
knees, and make straight paths for your feet, so that what is lame
may not be dislocated, but rather be healed.”

Hebrews 12:12-13 (NKJV)

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